Happy Birthday Nya

Two years ago today, Nya Renee was born. Today we celebrated her with gifts and all things related to Baby Shark (or Baby Doo Doo Doo, as she calls it).

Laynie made the cupcakes AND the frosting from scratch this morning.

They were delicious in case you were wondering! 😉

And Nya got lots of love (and gifts) from both of her grandparents and her Aunt Traci.

At one point during cupcakes, Gideon was playing with the ribbon and got all tangled up.

We are so thankful for this little surprise God blessed us with two years ago.

Also, you’ve never seen a kid more excited about receiving a new “squeasy” for her morning smoothies. Lol.

Happy birthday Nya.

We love you.

Happy 7th Birthday Gideon

These photos were taken almost exactly 7 years apart. It’s almost like he’s got a secret that he’s holding onto. Maybe he’s been laughing all along because he knows something we don’t.

Happy 7th birthday Gideon!!

You were 7 months old when the doctors told us you had less than a year to live. Then once you made it to a year, they gave you a 77% chance of living until to school age.

Somewhere along the way we realized that you will write your own story and we will love you and celebrate you every day until Jesus calls you home.

So happy 7th birthday Gideon. You’ve done more to impact others in your first 7 years of life than I could ever hope to do if given 77. ♥️

Looking forward to celebrating you today and then again in a few more days at Great Wolf Lodge!

A Wish with Wings

I have never felt more helpless than I did this past September, when our son Gideon was placed on hospice care. Since Gideon was 7 months old, we have known that his life expectancy would be short. However, that did not seem to change the shock of it all when he suddenly fell so ill.

End of life planning for a child is something no parent should every have to do. During his time on hospice, I called a funeral home to begin preparations should that time arise. We spoke with our pastor, planned music, gathered photos, etc.. And then something amazing happened. Gideon pulled through it all. On November 7th, he was discharged from hospice care. And just like that, two of the worst months of my life were over. The weight on my heart was lifted and I could breath again.

Maybe that is why I’m feeling extra emotional this Christmas. You see the truth is, when he was originally diagnosed with PBD, we never thought we would get even one Christmas with him. But as I reflect on these past six (almost 7) years, I’m reminded of an obvious and important truth.

None of us are promised tomorrow.

Any one of my kids could be taken from this life in an instant, not just Gideon. My able bodied children could become disabled in the blink of an eye. There are no guarantees of health and prosperity in this world.

That’s why I love the Christmas story. God knew before the foundation of the world how it would all come to pass. Jesus’s birth, offering the hope of our salvation reminds me that even when things seem to be out of our control, they are not out of His control. God’s working all things for our good and His glory.

And I can rest in that truth.

After my last post, a friend reached out and suggested some other organizations, similar to Make-a-Wish. A Texas organization called A Wish with Wings, has been granting wishes for kids with life threatening medical conditions since 1982. And although they don’t grant swim spas, in two short months they were able to give our boy a hot tub!! And the best part is that they got it done 3 days before Christmas!!

We would like to thank A Wish with Wings, Aries Spas of Rockwall, and Gary Winkles with Electrical Specialists of America for making Gideon’s wish a reality. We are eternally grateful for the many memories we will make with him as a family in these waters.